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A Friendly Universe


~Sunday, November 11, 2012

I have always considered myself a lucky person.  At forty-five years old, I’ve spent twenty-seven years of my life learning, practicing, teaching, perfecting, and most importantly, enjoying my profession as a hairstylist.  But it doesn’t stop there.  When many of my client friends voiced their support and interest in my desire to “one day” write a cookbook—consisting of the Italian food I grew up with which my mother prepared for her family every day of the week—I thought to myself, “ Well, thus far life has been kind to me—why stop now?” 

The most amazing part of this new venture to write a book is it began by me simply signing up for a class at my local community college.  Again I say, “I am a lucky person!”  Does everyone out there realize the opportunities waiting for them within their grasp?!  It is believed that Albert Einstein once wrote, “This is a friendly Universe; place an order with the catalogue of the Universe and then it is delivered to you.”  However, I also have never forgotten a famous quote by the great UCLA college basketball coach, John Wooden, “If you fail to prepare, prepare to fail.”  For me these two ideologies go hand in hand. 

‘A friendly Universe’ can be interpreted literally, or can simply be a state of mind. You can question it as a scientist would, or through the eyes of a philosopher.  Yes, it can be hard to think of our world as friendly when disaster, disease, and suffering fill our lives with despair; however, if you live your entire life in fear and never take a leap of faith you may never live your life!  The main reason I wrote my book was because I wanted to share with the world the love I have for my mother and my family.  It is the reason I have ALWAYS considered myself the luckiest person on earth. My intention in sharing my life experiences with others was to plant a seed that would hopefully grow and spread to others; spread to their children, spread to their grandchildren, and—why not?—spread throughout the Universe.  Anything is possible when you have good intentions, good work ethics, and strong beliefs.

I usually don’t go out of my way to seek happiness in others and in life; instead, happiness has always found me—waiting eagerly to embrace it with every grain of my existence.